Can I Be Real With You for a Minute?
Because I Know exactly what you're thinking.
You're juggling work, kids, and life constantly falling apart, then call your mom and talk about... the weather. Again.
You're scrolling Instagram seeing women post beautiful tributes to grandmothers who just passed, thinking "God. I don't even know what Grandma's biggest dream was.
Or you're at a family dinner and your mom casually mentions "my abortion before I had you” and you're like WAIT, WHAT? But everyone just keeps eating like she didn't just reveal a whole secret life.
And deep down, you keep thinking you'll ask her about all this stuff "next time." Because there's always going to be a next time, right? Life just keeps getting busier, and somehow those conversations keep getting pushed to "someday."
Here's what's really happening.
You want to ask the deeper questions. You think about asking them. But then life gets crazy again and the moment passes. And asking "So Mom, what was your biggest heartbreak?" feels weird when you usually just discuss grocery store sales.
But here's what I know: She has stories that would blow your mind.
The woman who raised you had a whole life before you existed. Dreams that got derailed. Adventures you can't imagine. Heartbreaks that shaped how she loved you. And she's sitting there assuming you don't want to hear about "ancient history."
What We're Actually Afraid Of
"What if it gets emotional and I don't know what to say?"
You don't need to say anything profound. Just listen.
Sometimes the most healing thing is finally having someone who wants to hear their story. If tears come, they're usually the good kind.
"What if I ask the wrong questions?"
The questions come in three gentle levels:
Light & Laughter (easy stories that make you both smile)
Crossroads & Courage (turning points that shaped her)
Truth & Testament (deeper wisdom she wants to pass down)
"What if we run out of things to talk about?"
One story always leads to another.
Ask about her first job, and suddenly she's telling you about the boss who believed in her, which reminds her of her mother's advice about confidence.
"What if she doesn't want to share certain things?"
Then you respect that completely.
This isn't about forcing painful memories. It's about creating space for the stories she's been wanting to tell.
The real fear though?
What if next month, next year is too late?
What if those stories are lost forever?
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That's less than:
A nice dinner out
Your monthly coffee habit
One tank of gas
But what you're really getting?
Their voices preserved forever
Stories that would otherwise be lost
The peace of knowing you didn't wait too long
Here's What I Know
I know how easy it is to wait.
But then next time becomes never... and her stories go with her.
What I've seen - over and over again - is this:
Once you ask the first question, she opens up.
You hear the laughter behind her scars. The strength behind her silence.
The love that shaped your family in ways you never knew.
This isn't just about memory.
It's about connection.
And it's about legacy - before it disappears.
Don't wait for the funeral to wish you had asked.
Start the conversation today. You'll never regret it.
My Promise
If this doesn't lead to at least one conversation that makes you both laugh and cry at the same time, I'll refund every penny. No questions asked.